School will be starting soon….
I’m working on my neverending thesis nowadays, I have a deadline to meet coz my supervisor is on sabbatical leave this semester so she should have the time to read my chapters.
(Yati, chapter yang aku bagi ko tengok tu semua memang byk giler kena amend sebab ntah apa-apa aku tulis, lagi teruk daripada Kerja Kursus Geografi Tingkatan Tiga!)

Aku tak sangka Yati pernah mengurat orang sebab nampak macam pemalu aje, auwww!

Aku sebenarnya jarang nak approach orang, unless aku dpat feedback yang orang tu memang minat kat aku. Tapi ada one time tu, aku ingat orang tu minat kat aku, and somehow I developed an interest for him. Later I found out that  rupa-rupanya dia tak minat kat aku, kawan2 dia yang saja mengusik!!! Patutla aku kena reject  macam pelik aje…. That was the one of the
stupidest and most embarassing things I’ve ever done in my whole life!
By the time he eventually developed an interest for me, I have no
feelings for him anymore. Tertutup sekejap pintu hatiku buat lelaki,
hahahaha! What an experience.

But I think I can share with you some do’s and dont’s:

1. DO give some hints if you minat someone. Generally women love flowers and chocolates, even from their husbands *hint! hint!* (hint yang useless sebab laki aku tak baca blog, dahlah dia catu intake coklat aku sekarang pastu dia kata "Da, tak elok ada bunga kat rumah sebab you tu asthma!"), and love cards. So keep those stuff coming! Dulu zaman sekolah, budak2 suka tinggal notes kat meja orang yang diorang minat, takpun masa takde orang kat kelas tu diorang gi conteng kat blackboard kelas tu ie "Norlia binti Ghani, I love you!!!" So romantic funny…
2. DO leave notes at windshield. If you borrow the other person’s book, kindly leave a sweet thank-you note inside. (hahaha this one is for you yati!!)
3. DON’T chase that person’s car on the highway. I was driving on Federal Highway with my sis some years ago. Pastu ada kereta ni dok kat sebelah keta aku (maklumlah Federal Highway kat banyak lane-tapi selalu jem jugak!), and ada mamat 2 orang dalam tu dok senyum2 kat kitorang. They actually followed us till we stopped at the petrol station because my then-boyfriend wanted to pump some fuel (you see, we both so-called konvoi kereta from Shah Alam, tapi kalau konvoi kereta dgn Nazri memang nama aje konvoi sebab Nazri selalu bawak laju2 and left me behind jauh-jauh ntah kat mana-mana. Kalau nak stop ke apa kena calling2 dgn handphone. Konvoi apa namanya macam tuh). Then aku turun kereta and bagitahu Nazri about the other car yang pulled over tak berapa jauh dari situ. I think that guy sebenarnya nak turun berkenalan or something, but seeing me talking to Nazri and pointing to him turned them off, so they drove off. (Kalau nak berkenalan pun, jangan la chase kereta perempuan tgh2 malam coz we never know you tu perogol ke, penyamun ke hapa….)
4. BE YOURSELF, but reserve la sikit certain things awal2 ni. Jangan buat lawak bodoh, jangan gelak over2 pada benda2 yang tak kelakar, jangan cakap skema nak mampus just because nak tunjuk polite, jangan dok cakap pasal business ko yang masyuk berapa ribu sebulan just to impress that girl or what car you drive. Poyo la.
5. Awal2 perkenalan, keep things between the both of you first. Jangan first date terus nak bawak dia jumpa mak-abah-atuk-opah-wan-moyang-mak lang-pak lang-busu etc. Jangan cakap pasal kawin, nak anak berapa orang pastu cari kalendar sebab nak tengok when is the next school holidays sebab nak plan kenduri. OMG!
6. Unless you don’t mind losing that person, jangan terus impose your expectations on her/him. Keep it cool, be friends dulu la okay…
7. Please don’t stare at that girl’s body. Yes, we DO notice it.
8. DO meet your friend at a quiet place so that you can have a pleasant chit-chat. Kalau gi McD pun, janganla dok kat sebelah playground dia. Nanti kang banyak dialog-dialog yang terganggu dgn pekikan "Adam! Jangan panjat tu!" or "Mummy, I want to peee!!!"
9. Send that person cards - ‘from a secret admirer’ or something. But please introduce yourself after that. Kalau dah dapat 583 cards from ’secret admirer’ dalam masa 3 tahun, lama-lama tension jugak pompuan tu.

So far itu aje kot yg aku terpikir. Ala, kan byk tips2 kat majalah2 nuuh, gi la baca.

Another thing is, if you want do anything, make sure that you do it for yourself. Don’t try to change yourself just because you want that person to love you.
Aku ada kawan ni, dah kawin. Dia kata wife dia nak pakai tudung, tapi wife dia takut suami dia ni akan cari lain if si wife tu pakai tudung, so wife dia tak pakai la. The reality is, her husband actually had a crush on a woman, and that woman actually wears a tudung.

Now what does that say? Men will always be men…