The last two weekends were so tiring…

Last two weeks we had to go for a so-called "retreat" on curriculum review in Equatorial Bangi from Friday to Sunday, then last Saturday I went to Sekolah Tunas Bakti in Melaka because we had a Clinical Legal Education program there. I only went there half day because Nazri’s family had a family gathering session at Dynasty Hotel, his uncle is graduating with PhD after years of suffering (sapa pernah buat thesis tau la). If I didn’t go to that family gathering, suffice to say that I was going to get a show cause letter since I already missed Nazri’s cousin wedding the week before due to the retreat. My hubby insisted that I call his mother explaining to her why I couldn’t attend this one… and of course somewhere in the deepest, darkest corner of my heart I yelled "WTF?!" (hopefully my unborn child didn’t hear that). I immediately sent an SMS to Suzanna saying that I could only attend the CLE thing half way. CLE is something that we’ve worked for for months. Mujur Suzanna boleh stayed there the whole day.

Waking up several times at night going to the toilet really affect my sleep. I keep telling myself that I don’t want to be like some pregnant women who got cranky and moody, but boy I am sooooo tired and sleepy. It doesn’t help that my maid is always getting on my nerves these days and Adam likes to jump on my tummy and someone thinks that going out and getting some food to satisfy my cravings is so troublesome. Sometimes I just lie down on my bed curled up in a fecal fetal position, trying to sleep but usually to no avail. Oh, well.

I’ll be on leave next week coz my sister’s getting married. Can’t wait to go back and eat all the delicious foods that can only be found in Kelantan. Tataa…

By the way, I don’t normally promote blogs but I just love this blog because somehow we share the same sentiments towards certain craps.

I saw her on Monday.
I asked her several questions with an annoying voice and face.
Dia jawab tergagap-gagap, pastu bagi jawapan ntah apa-apa. Kantoi la tuh.

Then she came to see me on Tuesday.

"Why did you sound so annoyed yesterday? Bla..bla..blaa"
"Miss S, you need to sit down."

Then I gave her a piece of my mind.
Dia siap boleh deny lagi certain things that she said to me…

"No..no I never said that."
I said, "Yes, Miss S, you said it."
"Oh really? Then I apologize, actually what I meant was bla..bla..blaa".  (expecting me to buy all those shits)

Ok then, out of respect I also apologized to her if I have offended her in any way (tak ikhlas pun, as I said - out of respect aje mengenangkan dia orang tua and ’senior’ kat sini.)

You know what did she say?

"Oh it’s ok, I know you are a DARAH MUDA and one day you are going to handle someone with darah muda also."

And then she kept blabbering how she has all the experience etc.

Well, that was easy?!!
She still wouldn’t admit her mistakes.

The lesson that she gave me was:

If you are old and buat kerja macam taik, anytime ada orang tak puas hati dgn you, you just blame it on their age.

Well excuse me, orang2 darah muda ni ni lagi reti buat kerja properly compared to orang2 tua yang konon senior and lebih makan garam and demand us to respect them just because they are older than us.

Better darah muda daripada darah tinggi, Miss S.
Puh-lease.

Adam is three!

Dah besar dah anak aku…

For those who came on Saturday, thanks a lot!
Hope you had a great time as much as I did.
Really needed to forget the stupid stuff that happened on Friday!

Adam was happy to see many people around since he’s always alone, surrounded by his parents and bibik aje most of the time…
Sorry tak dapat nak jemput semua, it was just a small party for relatives and close friends who live close to us.
Itu pun aku dah kelam-kabut coz semua buat sendiri kecuali kek and cupcakes and jajan. Sorry kalau ada salah silap, ada yang terkurang…

Will post the pics soon. Aku pun tak sempat tgk lagi gmbr2 tu b’coz Nazri bawak laptop dia gi kerja for 2 days! Gambar2 semua dah save dalam laptop.

By the way, I’m late..
I’m pregnant again.
Alhamdulillah.
(Again - unplanned pregnancy. Tak reti-reti lagi ke?)

Now - how to inform my boss…???
("Don’t worry boss, I think I’m due in May which is during the semester break and it won’t affect my classes. I think.")

I just hope she won’t freak out!

Couple of months ago:

"Hello Asnida, so that u know you are now in the XXX committee."
"Huh? Oh, ok."

Sapa memandai2 bagi nama aku ni? Kalau aku nak, aku akan join sendiri, tak payah suruh-suruh aku pun…

The next thing I know, this person (let’s call dia S) was harassing me like S owns me.
With no meeting whatsoever, S gave stupid orders last minute without even bothered to discuss whatever plan with us or explain the details of her idiotic plan or inform us whenever the plan has been changed by her.

Last Friday.

"Asnida, you have to cancel whatever plan you have on that day coz we have decided in the last meeting that everybody has to be there at 3pm."
"WHAT MEETING?"
"Err..er…our meeting."

Meeting kepalahotak kau. Mana pernah ada meeting committee?!!!
Banyak cantek muka ko suruh aku cancel everything and jadi pak sanggup sampai pukul 7 malam kat dewan mana ntah! Ko nak aku buat apa tercongok kat situ sampai 7 malam when the function is starting at 8pm and you’ve hired a company to arrange everything?
And you claim that u were there from 12pm?! What were you doing for 4.5 hours there?

Pastu putar belit fakta kat orang lain, pastu call aku pukul 4.30 petang marah2 pasal aku takde kat tempat tu!
Ko ingat ko sapa?!
Ko buat kerja macam taik, pandai bagi arahan aje, tak tanya orang pastu ko nak blame orang lain ya?
Ko ingat orang lain tak tahu perangai busuk ko tu, dah ramai orang warning aku pasal taktik tak guna ko tuh!

If I hear that she complains about my or my colleague to anybody, trying to put the blame on us, she is going to hear from me.

She really crossed the line this time.
Bangsat.

Sometimes I like to watch Discovery Travel & Living Channel, especially when there’s nothing good on Channel 17 and 70.
My hubby loves to bake and cook, somehow I think the Naked Chef has something to do with it. He makes cooking look cool and proves that you don’t have to be gay to be able to cook. But hubby felt a bit annoyed by the Jamie Oliver’s tongue. Tak baik ler Yang….

Nigella is also ok la…  I tried her recipes and they worked so it’s fine with me.
But some girls at my hubby’s department really hate Nigella.
Probably having a female chef who’s not afraid to flaunt her assets and lick her spoon on TV is not good for us women. As if it’s not enough for her to show off her cooking skills while looking hot doing so… you make us feel like losers!
Nigella, you owe your ratings to all those male viewers, not the women.

Jamie Oliver ,

Anthony Bourdain,

and
Keith Floyd (OMG! We share the same birthday!)

are not helping us in arousing our interest in cooking or anything else

But this guy is….

David Rocco.

He’s handsome,
   
he’s nice

and he’s NOT gay! Can u believe that?!
Did I mention that he’s an Italian?
Everybody repeat after me : "A straight, handsome, nice Italian guy who cooks."

And he’s also married…*sigh*

One word.
YUM-MY. 

p/s: Darling you are also yummy what…a straight Tampinian doctor who cooks..so sexy hehehe!